There’s a need for us all to talk about our sexual health and all things related to sex. Sex is an often taboo subject that’s often made us feel uncomfortable to talk about and as a result, it ends up with many individuals around the world is somewhat restricted from discovering and exploring their sexuality and their sensual sides in general. Whether that’s exploring tantric massages to self-pleasure in the comfort of your own home. However, I’m hoping that myself and the generations around me, will feel more open and inclined to talk about our sexual side because lets be honest, whether you like it or not, you should feel comfortable talking about it either way.
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Self-please is something that should be explored but is it any surprise that not everyone does? There are 78% of adults in the world that do masturbate, however, what about that other 22%? In order to have an enjoyable sex life that can do a lot for your health and happiness, you need to know what you like and to start with yourself first. It’s why some relationships and partners can end up being the wrong match due to it partly being about the lack of spark in the bedroom.
Focus on your own self-pleasure before you do it meaningfully with others. It’s important that you’re able to do everything you need to get the sexual gratification required. Otherwise, sex in every sense of the word is not going to be something you enjoy or look forward to doing. You also don’t need a partner in order to satisfy yourself.
Try Tantric Massages
A tantric massage is something that’s been used since ancient India and it’s one that can help tap into your sexual arousal and to really help you to open up. It’s useful for those who find it difficult to engage with their own sexual needs and wants in a comfortable yet intimate way. If you’ve never had a tantric massage before, then it’s something that’s worth considering. It’s something that’s deeply spiritual in nature and it can help to relieve tensions and guide you to the liberating experience of being sensual with your body. There are varying levels available, so it’s worth doing your research to find out what works best for you and what you, of course, feel comfortable with.
Be Open With Your Partner Or Flings
Whether you have a long-term partner, someone you’ve been dating for. a brief period of time or a few one-off flings, be open with whoever it is. Communication is important when it comes to sex and letting your partner know what you want and need is important. It’s the same for them too and so it’s always essential regardless of what status your relationship is in with another person, you’re openly conversing with them when it comes to sex and your sexual side in general.
Breathe & Be Vocal
Experiencing any type of sexual activity is something that will likely encourage some form of sound from you. The best thing to do in this case is to let it out loud and proud, You will likely find that whatever you’re feeling is going to be amplified when you’re being vocal. Don’t forget to breathe too when you’re in the moment because the last thing you want is to burst a blood vessel or pass out. It’s not necessarily the end that you want when it comes to any experience in the bedroom with your partner.
Have Adult Conversations Without Getting Embarrassed
We’re all adults and we don’t have school ground conversations or petty talk when it comes to sex. Try to be open and talk confidently with those that make you feel comfortable when it comes to sex. We should be able to get to a point where you can talk about the sexual experiences you’ve had with those you feel closest and comfortable to without being embarrassed. Again, it’s a natural thing, so stop yourself when you feel awkward.
What advice would you give to those who are struggling with their sexual side of life? Let me know in the comments below if you’d try a tantric massage or feel comfortable when talking about sex.
*Disclaimer – This is a collaborative post with London Tantric. All words are my own.